1. Catch people doing things right
Constructive criticism is a myth and an oxymoron. Nobody likes to be criticised and for self-preservation many will erect their esteem barrier as soon as they see it coming. Try this experiment for a week and see what happens. You are only allowed to catch people doing positive things, you must be precise and you cannot use the terms ‘good’ or ‘bad’. It doesn’t even have to be exceptional. For example, you walk past someone talking on the phone and when they have finished you make a point of taking them aside. You say something like “If I was the customer on the other end of that phone I would feel welcome, and comfortable that you have the skill and ability to resolve my issue”. Explain exactly why and leave it at that. Don’t finish with clichés like “keep it up” or “well done” and definitely don’t try and balance the feedback by commenting on a weakness (“yes…but”).
2. Focus on strengths
If you spend all your time trying to improve your weakness then all you are likely to end up with is strong weaknesses. You are the boss and you decide what you are going to do. If you find spreadsheets tedious and time consuming then stop building your own business plans, forecasts and ROI models. There are potential employees coming out of university now that can use spreadsheets ten times quicker than you and at a fraction of your cost. Spend your time on activities for which you have a passion and that only you can do. Instil this in your managers and staff. If someone has a weakness that is core to their job then ‘zoom-out’ and find a way to focus them on their strengths. I once had a salesperson who knew the products backwards, he was smart and asked great questions. Customers loved him and he worked really hard. However, he had a real problem with rejection and when he failed to get an order or was knocked-back by a prospect he was miserable. Being in sales he was miserable a lot. I persuaded him to apply for a product managers job. He was reluctant because the salary was less than his OTE as a salesperson but he accepted the fact that he was unhappy and ended up taking the job. He now runs his own business. Obviously if you have a salesperson that has a problem with rejection and they also are lazy and disorganised, you don’t move them into product management just because they understand the products.